Learn About Happiness and suffering

Still on the relationship of the universe. Human relations.Humans can not live without another human being, that's been true since our ancestors Adam who was asking the Lord to bring her in person for her. Hes granted Adam's request. Adam was no longer lonely friends.

Why do people undergo a relationship? Why do people decide to get married? They could well be a wedding associate with happiness or rather a feeling of happiness and joy for a couple. People started to create hope for then believe THAT marriage would make them happy, will get a descent and enjoy what is called love, security, peace and warmth of a family.

Why is it they are already united later divorced? They decided to immediately put an end to a relationship that has been built invitation expectations. Prefer not together anymore? If they do not find happiness and only find misery in their marriage?

Humans are influenced by two encouragement pain and joy.Humans may even have decided to never marry again after failures experienced them first. Here married associated as an affliction and like a pain, with all the human instinct to avoid it.On other hand thinks along with her partner in marriage would make them happy. They started a relationship and then enter into a ladder which is called marriage. That man do anything for his happiness.

What about friends? Friends were always there beside us under any circumstances, but turned away from us for some reason? Even turned into hate and decided the friendship that had been woven.How about a particular hobby, we so love to be a part of their daily activities. However, there are certain events that make us do not like it anymore, stop doing it.

What about the food? We liked the menu there are certain foods in your diet a restaurant, up to an event when eating the food we find something disgusting, for example, we found the flies and the hair on the meal. Instantly makes us turn to avoid the foods and stops loved it and promised myself not to eat the food it back.

What about cigarettes? Some people really like the sensation provided when sucking nicotine. Willing to not eat the staple food than not smoking, give up the money that it generates in the works burned away that makes opium but gradually undermine the health of various loopholes, such as cancer, heart disease, and even death. Warnings in tobacco products also seemed as if the only discourse without smoking even joked that we would all die. It's no secret that in fact our society is still below the poverty line spend the greatest revenue puntungan only to smoking. On the other hand some people hate smoking, not even like the smoke and tend to avoid people who smoke, for people's cigarettes is suffering. Approaching non tantamount to near death.

What joy when going to learn certain things, but in fact just the opposite when we feel through the learning process. You could say a thing we learn seem far from the expectations of the moment we decided to study it. We also successfully quit studied because it was futile to spend time with things that are torturous.

Human constituted two biggest boost in life is happiness and suffering. Some say if we like something otherwise a modest course aliases do not really like was not too hate, it may be that when we like something could turn 180 degrees into hate, or vice versa. Without thought right or wrong in that view, I prefer trying to associate with the right words about the joys and sufferings.Using a good knowledge of the associate happiness and misery. Not just a mere desire without understood that ultimately will only plunge us in the choices that will be regretted.

Happiness and suffering is holding very close. Today you can be happy, but tomorrow you suffer, or even a few minutes after the happiness or misery was over, then a minute later would change the atmosphere.

If today you happy, be thankful! but do not forget to prepare yourself for the suffering will be toward you. And if today you suffer, be patient! but do not be discouraged, because happiness is always ready waiting.

Let's learn to associate both the impulse.

I want to talk about happiness,,,
that happiness lies in the heart,,,
if we want to be happy ...
we have to become a person who is always thankful...
but if not,, even if we have everything we would never be happy,,,

as well as suffering,,,
suffering is like salt and water,,,
if accepted it is a glass container,,,
then it will taste salty salt,,,
but if the container is a salt lake or river, it would not have felt,,,

so all up to us ,,,
if we are a glass container then all that happens to us,,,
would we think of as suffering,,,
but if it is a person with a big heart, so it was all a test from  our God,,,